Excellent letter.
If I need to write one (again), I'll be sure to take it as an example.
Thanks for sharing.
I hope your family really understands what you wrote...
our families have cut off contact with us for the last several months.
they found out that we were celebrating holidays with our non-witness family.
our families were our last tie to the organization, as our former friends stopped associating with us about 3 years ago.
Excellent letter.
If I need to write one (again), I'll be sure to take it as an example.
Thanks for sharing.
I hope your family really understands what you wrote...
since we seem to be growing with new members or lurkers here is a repeat of a test about where you are when it comes to religious beliefs or not:.
here isthe site and how i tested:.
http://www.findmyreligion.com/ start at number 1 for the religious test.. i just took the test and scored: .
James Brown,
I know for myself I am an atheist ;-)
I think one of the test can result in 'atheist', but I took multiple tests on both sites so I don't know which one :-p
i thought the writer here did a good job comparing the faqs of several high control groups.
hopefully this will be useful to someone out there.. http://thoughtsonthingsandstuff.com/we-are-not-a-cult/.
since we seem to be growing with new members or lurkers here is a repeat of a test about where you are when it comes to religious beliefs or not:.
here isthe site and how i tested:.
http://www.findmyreligion.com/ start at number 1 for the religious test.. i just took the test and scored: .
this book was published in 2010:.
defending the good news: the jehovahs witnesses plan to expand the first amendment.
it is partially based on an interview with an ex-jw, jerry bergman, and, besides other things, contains information on h. c. covington and his supreme court cases.
I am with prologos here.
WTBS denies any JW the same freedom of speech, religion, association, thought and medical treatment it fought for in the highest courts.
WTBS currently fights for the right to keep any conversation between a JW and an elder confidential as privileged, even they learn about reprehensibles crimes like child abuse.
And yet WTBS expects JW medical professionals who learn of an other JW who accepted blood to break the law, break confidentiality and report that to the elders.
F###ing hypocrites!
so i was hoping to get some insight on this subject of telling your spouse that you no longer believe in god.
for two people who have been jehovahs witnesses for 20 years together, talking about this seems to be real hard for me.
i still pray with my wife before meals but that's about it.
Kudos to you for waking up, and being a good husband :-)
I hope I didn't imply you weren't doing any of the good stuff before :-p
Seems like a lot of us here with a spouse still in....hope they will all wake up soon....
@LevelTPF,
In JW library app updates to magazines release 2 weeks ago are sometimes available.
They also have changed printed versions, e.g. yearly volume contained other text than same original monthly issue.
And the electronic version of older lit sometimes has different text than the original printed issue.
So, yes they do.
this is a question for ex jw's who have joined another christian faith group.
the purpose of my question iis to find out which christian faith group you chose after leaving watchtower and what convinced you to travel this new spiritual path you are on.
i am interested to know because i personally would like to find a genuine faith group where i can feel true christian liberty as i initially thought i had with the witnesses.
Happy atheist now. Maybe I would still believe something if JW didn't force me to look into everything I ever believed.
To me, all religion is based on thin air: a (personal) God for which no evidence exists, worshipped based on ancient texts written by people with clearly different morals than we currently have.
Of course, everyone is free to believe otherwise.
so i was hoping to get some insight on this subject of telling your spouse that you no longer believe in god.
for two people who have been jehovahs witnesses for 20 years together, talking about this seems to be real hard for me.
i still pray with my wife before meals but that's about it.
Good point raised by some indeed, which I forgot to mention: be the best husband you can ever be.
Help your wife with everything, but especially the JW stuff if she wants.
Offer to join her for meetings, or drive her there if needed.
Cook on meeting evening, and clean the house if she is going and you are not.
It's possible your wife needs new reasons to continue loving you, so provide her with as many reasons as you can.
Why? Because (depending on how in your wife is), you are about to destroy her world. You leave her all alone forever in paradise. All alone as a spiritual widow.
She didn't sign up for this shit.
And, if you suddenly don't love God anymore, what about maybe you suddenly leave her???
She will feel insecure and need reassurance. This will be worse if she is born in....
so i was hoping to get some insight on this subject of telling your spouse that you no longer believe in god.
for two people who have been jehovahs witnesses for 20 years together, talking about this seems to be real hard for me.
i still pray with my wife before meals but that's about it.
@Hadriel,
I think women (in general) tend to believe on emotional grounds, not logic.
They 'feel' their belief, the WT logic is more than enough. No need to investigate (due diligence).
Men tend to be more rational, also on religious topics. Unfortunately most of JW men are bedazzled by JW 'logic'.